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Not Religion but a Lighthouse

 


A thought-provoking chat popped up in our Women’s Bible study that triggered my thoughts about labels which creep into our identity.  

The question taken from John 17:9, refers to realizing I am a child of God but sometimes I pick up an identity that seems to get in the way of living like one.  For instance, I love the Lord but I do not see myself as a religious person.  A few years ago, a family friend commented to me:  “You’re opinion surprised me; you were raised in the same religion as me.”  Clearly, being born into a religion is not my identity.  Some do not understand a relationship with Jesus apart from religious activity.

 

With regard to the China Virus we currently deal with, I believe the virus, itself, is real, yet I feel it’s become a political red herring to control individuals, especially Christians.  I notice the Lord has not stopped this reset despite everybody’s prayers.  I wonder if, He too, would like to see some changes!  I’ve been frustrated with Sunday rituals and the lack of relevance to today’s culture in the messages.  I hope for less government-led church services where they are told what they can and cannot say and more lighthouses to take the system’s place.  Imagine if Jesus followers would shine as bright lights to the despairing.  Imagine the faithful alert and ready to see where they can bring hope, regardless if it’s Sunday or not.  

Last week, my daughter, Amy, and I took advantage of the end-of-summer sales at the mall.  We drove to a local hot spot for lunch.  Amy paused with me in front of the restaurant sign and a friendly woman approached us, noticed our attempt at a selfie, and offered to take our picture.  



We shared with her about our mother-daughter outing.   She warned Amy to enjoy every minute of our day; she lost her mom at nine years old.  We invited her to have lunch with us but she declined.  She was there to pick up a quick sandwich for her bedridden husband of 49 years, who’s very sick with pancreatic cancer.  We expressed our hope that they’ll reach fifty years.  She divulged it was only a few months away!  Amy suggested we pray for her, but sensed her discomfort.  We promised to keep her in our prayers and believe for a miracle; she liked that.  This dear gal has been on my heart.  Tom and I celebrated our 49th wedding anniversary just two weeks ago.  I can’t imagine her pain. 

My initial point, to be the church and not just religiously attend one, calls for effort on my part if I really believe I can share hope in this hurting world.  I believe it is what Jesus had in mind when he established the Ecclesia, a fancy church word for assembly. We need love, not walled buildings.  Frightened people now especially need help; have you noticed? 

 I feel blessed Tom and I made it to forty-nine years without killing each other.  Instead of traveling, we celebrated our anniversary at home with our loving family.  The grandchildren helped me make a cake, a wedding cake recipe from a girlfriend, and we iced it with homemade frosting tinted pink.  It was the best, I tell you!  Here’s the recipe.  Click here.






 In closing, I’m thankful for summer’s memories, for all the blessings and I’m hopeful for a bright future.  Let’s look for opportunities to love one another.  Let’s be powerful lighthouses.  No one can take that away!  The government can shut down the church building but not the shining faithful! 


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  1. Hi Mary, Your words are so true, God does not live in a house made with hands, we who believe are the body of Christ on earth - the church, and it is very important that we shine a light to spread the gospel in this dark world with whatever we have been given to share. Your daughter is very much like you to look at. God bless you and yours, and may He bless the lady's husband with the healing that He can bring about. All things are possible with God, what man can not do He can do.

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    1. Brenda, you are such a bright light and I love to read your zeal for the Lord at your place, too. Thank you for praying for the woman and her husband; such a load to carry in her hurting heart.

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  2. Great-looking cake! Wishing both You and Tom many more years together!
    I like the two very good pictures of mother-daughter, wife-husband.
    As for religion - I believe in God, pray to Him, but do this at home. I keep away from organized religion.

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  3. I agree with everything you said sister Mary! Even about the virus. So tired of everything that's happening with everything being politicized. I like to bring work sometimes with my comment because I learned a lot about spiritual battles there. I had seen many suicidal (and those with other mental issues) inmates who at the same time were so religious. I sensed that was spirit of religiosity (?) that seemed to be so into Jesus but at the same time, a lot of statements were off from Biblical teaching. I see that nowadays where many churches don't truly understand the Lord's ways. Very seldom we find those who live in Spirit and Truth. It's sad. Because it doesn't help those who need to be led to God's grace and forgiveness through Jesus.

    Loved all the pics you shared. You and bro. Tom looked good and looked so happy, same with your daughter. That cake? Yum. Not sure it mattered what color of frosting you put ;) You remind me to be thankful for so many things shared with my family. I feel that, too. That despite many's prayers, the virus is still here. Not only are the lies being exposed from many who are not honest serving in the government but also, the people who are quick to not discern the lies vs. the truth and easily follows what is told to do. Praying for you and with you sister and may the Lord always strengthen you and protect you and your family. May that lady's husband be healed by the Lord. Love and prayers always sister Mary.

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    1. I can only imagine the spiritual warfare at the prison. What a light bearer you are and were working there for sure. I knew others would help me pray for the woman and her husband's miracle of healing. Love and prayers to you, Rosel, my sister in Christ and buddy, too.

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  4. Hi Mary! Happy Anniversary! Such a good time to reflect on what truly is our purpose in the LORD and how to shine His light and share His Love!! Blessings and Love!! 💕

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    1. PS beautiful photos of you and your daughter and husband!!!

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    2. Thank you, Shayndel, for your sweet words!

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  5. Happy Anniversary cutie pies!
    Yours and Amy's experience is such a great example of what it means to be a Lighthouse. I can only presume some Big City people are uncomfortable with public displays of worship. (Good thing I relocated to the Southlands ... smile.)

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    1. Oh, friend, I love reading about your new lifestyle!!!!

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  6. Oh, Mary! There was so much goodness and comfort in this post! Happy 49th anniversary to you and Tom! You two are just a precious couple. I wish with all my heart we lived closer to one another and could visit in person. There is just something so special and loving about you two. I pray God will give you both many, many more happy, healthy, good quality years together! Your cake is just beautiful. I 100% agree with ALL you said in this post. God is doing His utmost to get "the church" to wake up, but few are getting it. All they seem to want to do is get back to "business" as usual. Yes, I said business. That is what so many of the churches have turned into. Numbers, filling the thousands of empty seats, getting back to being in control, etc. seems to be all they care about. I think we should all be on our faces before God crying out for His forgiveness and mercy over our many sins, but the total opposite is happening and people are getting more hateful and mean-spirited. Dear Lord, help us all - He is our only hope. I love your beautiful heart and all you said here, and I add a hearty amen to it all! God bless you, sweet friend.

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    1. You see it too? We Christians better start acting like the real church. It's not a business; that's for sure. Cheryl, we've been praying for years for a change.

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  7. Happy anniversary to you and Tom. You two are such a lovely couple. LOVE the picture of you and your beautiful daughter and what a wonderful story of being a lighthouse for God. God's light surely shines through you dear lady. Oh my! That cake.....I know it was calorie free! LOL! Hugs and blessings to you dear lady.
    Cindy

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  8. "I feel blessed Tom and I made it to forty-nine years without killing each other."

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    A heartwarming post. I'll keep that lady in my prayers too.

    Our church sold their building and was about to build a new one when all of this happened. Now we meet online. Weird how that happened. A small group meets at a local church with room for 70. Our church has over 1200 people. Soon we will be meeting in a school...if it opens.

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    1. Hi, Sandi!
      We find creative ways to fellowship and that's what matters!

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