I
noticed a behavior pattern in little Amy, twenty months old, that I want to
imitate. She moves fast engaging in one
toddler activity after another spinning like a whirlwind from one room to
another. Yet, she pauses, intermittently, long enough to get refreshed.
I want to be like this grandchild of mine because she knows where to go and
how to get comforted.
Amy
moves at record speed, putting more miles on a pedometer in one hour than my
accumulated weekly workouts at the gym.
She can build a skyscraper so tall, I wonder why those bright pink
Lego’s don’t topple to the ground as she continues to stack just one more piece
on top.
I
learned never to leave the room to get another cup of coffee. Once, when I returned, I found her climbing
past the couch with hands and feet reaching for the living room drapes.
She
has a consistent habit that I admire. In
the midst of her activities, as she moves robustly from one play area to
another, she pauses in front of her daddy’s recliner. I’ve observed this numerous times in my
visits and he always puts down the book on his lap, or lays his phone on the
coffee table. The look on his face says:
“Great.
Amy is here!”
She
climbs on his lap and with one pull of his arm he swings her up on the
recliner, shifts his body to cuddle her comfortably and kisses her
forehead. Every time! It is a picture of security to me as I watch
her sucking her left thumb while she twirls her golden locks with her right
fingers. She doesn’t stay long. She gets her hug and slides down running to
the next play station.
The
Greek word, Abba, means “Daddy” and is used in Scripture to give us a vision of
our heavenly Father’s parental love for us.
He desires to cuddle with us, holding us on his lap so we can know the
security of a father’s big hands steadying us.
He wants to hold us tightly because, after all, this world is a scary
place sometimes. The activities of the
day wear us down and we need to know Daddy is not only there but more than
willing to listen intently and individually as only a supernatural parent is
capable of doing.
I’m
like so many at Christmastime, busy with baking homemade cookies, breads and decorating. I like to visit neighbors and friends sharing
baked gifts from my kitchen. I drive
myself in a tailspin working hard at my day’s schedule to get everything done
on time!
I
know full well where to go to get the refreshment I need. I know how to climb on Abba’s lap, but
sometimes I put it off thinking He’ll be there when I can get around to drawing
close to His peaceful heart in our special place.
Do
your holidays call for too much to do in too short a time?
This
year I’m taking a tip from little Amy.
It’s okay to schedule every fun activity as long as I remember to take a
few minutes out to climb on Abba’s lap and breathe in His peace and love!
This post links to Liz's Christmas Blog Hop.
Beautiful! What a picture of security and love your son and grand daughter have! And so wonderful that we have the same with our Abba Father. Thank you for sharing.
ReplyDeleteThat's it, Melanie. Every time I saw it happen, I would think to myself "I need to recharge like this with Father!" Blessings to you this week, dear sister, may it be a joyful one.
DeleteAmy is so adorable; and what a lesson she did indeed teach you. She knew she would be loved and secure in her dad's arms indeed, just like we are secure in our Abba's lap and arms if we will just learn to climb into them more often than not :)
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It is a picture of security to me, Betty. It's imprinted on my mind if, like you say, I will just take advantage of it more often.
DeleteHow comfortable and safe was she on her dad's lap! So beautiful knowing how secured she felt in her daddy's presence. A timely reminder that no matter what busy things this place has, we must never be distracted in the presence of our Father. In that safe, secure, comforting places in our hearts. Oh...the things we learn from little ones! Simple truths!
ReplyDeleteTake it easy sister Mary and may you always be strengthened knowing He is the One Who empowers each of us who believes! Blessings and hugs.
Daddy's presence, indeed! Oh, it is empowering--such a good word, Rosel. Hugs to you, my precious friend!
DeleteAwwwww.....this is absolutely the sweetest, Mary! Amy is a little precious doll! :)
ReplyDeleteWell her mommy calls her the "destroyer." I love her curious, adventurous spirit!
DeleteOh, dear friend! What a precious thought! I love thinking that no matter when I come to Him, my precious Father is never too busy to pull me close and hold me as long as I need to be held. What a privilege to carry everything to Him! Thank you for sharing these dear thoughts with us here. Sending you big hugs and much love!
ReplyDeleteDrawing close to Him with you, my sister, especially this week. Big hugs right back to you!
DeleteThis is wonderful. I hope Paul sees this as I think it would bless him. Keep writing Mom! Love you.
ReplyDeletePaul is a blessing to our family. This grandma couldn't ask for a better daddy for her granddaughter. Luv u!
DeleteWhat a beautiful piece of writing! I think I do get caught up in the commercial aspects of gift-buying. What helps is going outside the family in giving and selecting several charities to give to as well.
ReplyDeleteGreat thought, Tamara! Giving makes this season so much fun and brings fulfillment!
DeleteStopping by for the blog hop - love the silver tree!
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by, Sylvia. I photographed the silver tree in Balboa Park, San Diego.
DeleteThat little thumb sucking Amy is adorable! And what a beautiful analogy. Certainly we are no busier than Amy yet she finds the time to spend with her father. Wouldn't life be easier if we found time throughout our day to reconnect with our Father? Great post!
ReplyDeleteYou really get it, Lisa! Happy week to you sister!
DeleteWhat a great way to learn and such a sweet picture. I actually take a week off work in December to decorate and shop. It really helps and helps ease the stress that we all find we have at this time even though it is a fun time
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by, Birgit. Enjoy your decorating!
DeleteThe lessons we learn from children!! No wonder Jesus loved them so much. Their hearts are specially attuned to His ways, and their simple trust speaks volumes to the way we should relate to our Lord.
ReplyDeleteAbba. Will we ever fully understand the tremendous privilege of calling the Almighty God our *daddy*???
Crawling up now...
GOD BLESS!
(Dad and Amy are precious, and that photo is priceless!)
Love your comment, Sharon, and agree with you 100%. Have a great week!
DeleteI've learned so much from having children. That's one of my favorite things about life: we're always learning from those around us.
ReplyDeleteMerry Christmas!
Isn't that the truth, L.G. Children humble me with their purity.
DeleteNever pass up a chance to see what the universe has found for us. Our children become our guides.
ReplyDeleteGod speaks to us in many ways. I always love the lesson involving children...both His big ones and little ones!
Deletelovely my friend.
ReplyDeleteCheers...be blessed.
DeleteI love this story-picture of climbing in my Abba's lap. And receiving His peace and love that He so much wants for us (just like a grandpa)!
ReplyDeleteThank you for that, Lynn. Makes me think of the grandpa I had when I was little too and how affectionate he was.
DeleteThat is a great illustration, definitely something I need to remind myself of on a daily basis. I wonder why I'm tired all the time, and it is simply because I'm not finding rest with God as often as I should.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful confession, Liz, and I'm thinking many of us go through this especially during holidays.
DeleteI just read this Mary, and you are right, even when here in April, she'd find Daddy and just relax, and recharge. I always knew Paul would be a great Dad, and thinking back, our kids would do that same thing. Relating it to the heavenly Father is nothing I had considered before reading this. As I've said before, you are one of God's angels here on Earth.
ReplyDeleteMy kids also did this as I think most toddlers do; they're looking for security in their little world and know where to seek it! The father's role is so necessary as we get our understanding of Father God from our earthly dads when we're little. Our children so desperately need a loving, hands-on father as well as nurturing moms! I'll round up some photos soon!
DeleteLove you,
Mary
PS. Could you send me a copy of any recent pictures? It is so hurtful when others tell me there is a great picture on FB, but I can't see it. Thanks Mary!
ReplyDeleteAs usual, you are sharing and grabbing many people's hearts. You are a treat and a blessing. Thank you so much! You are so kind to me ... and to many!!!
ReplyDeleteThat pause is what we need in this fast-moving world. I need that surely.
ReplyDeleteDon't we all! At any time of the year!
DeleteWonderful comforting post. Thanx. God bless.
ReplyDeleteThanks for stopping by, Victor! So happy you were blessed.
DeleteOh sweet lady! This made me smile and tear up! What a precious story and oh yes...couldn't we all take after sweet little precious Amy! Thanks for the reminder my friend. Hugs and blessings, Cindy
ReplyDeleteAs they say "from one grandmother to another" - you know how I feel. Bless you, Cindy!
DeleteLovely, lovely, this sweet little girl knows her onions well!
ReplyDeleteI am enjoyed this post, friend. Very encouraging and a beautiful reminder.
Many Blessings to you
Blessings to you, Ifeoma, and all the light you bring to South Africa.
Deletethis is so beautifully written and the analogy is awesome. And Amy sounds like a little dream. Happy Thursday.
ReplyDeleteThanks, Nikki, for dropping by and your support. Sending hugs.
DeleteGood lesson for my, special today. Thank you so much.
ReplyDeleteBlessings to you, Ariella!
DeleteThis was beautiful and eye opening. It's a wise person gifted from our Father that can see a simple lesson and learn from the most cherished gifts He gives us in this walk through life.
ReplyDeleteThanks for the lesson and reminder. No better place and rest than in the hands of our Father.
I agree, Floyd. No better place to get recharged than resting in the Father. It's a supernatural nap for the soul for me during my busy afternoons!
DeleteA great post! I miss toddlers and their love of exploring and venturing forth. Merry Christmas!
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