My best friend’s husband died, but she did not place her wedding ring in a draw. She designed a new ring, an everyday kind of ring, and incorporated the diamonds from her wedding ring. I cheered her on for her ingenuity to keep his memory close at all times. A gal in my critique group wrote about the best Christmas present she ever received. She inherited her late mother-in-law’s mink coat. She loved her dearly, but when she put on the coat, she felt like she stepped out of the 1950’s. She hated the thought of it placed in a box and stacked on a closet shelf. Her husband took it to a furrier and surprised her at Christmas with a brand new mink stole. I choked up when I read her words of love for her mother-in-law and the beautiful mink cape she wore for a classy event in frigid Flagstaff during the holidays. The Spiritual Trade off I don’t have a mink coat or extra diamonds to create something new. I do have some thin...